This is a spur of the moment thing caused by an observation in my own home.
If you want your relationship to be better, especially in marriage, say "please" and "thank you," please. We have been taught this concept since we were children, so you think it wouldn't be so hard.
When you ask someone to do something and you don't say "please" or "thank you," they may just feel like you are taking advantage of them. We all know that feeling, I'm sure, and it is not a pleasant one.
So the next time you need something done, just use the magic words. You can say, "Honey, will you please water the flowers for me today?" That is much better than, "You never water the flowers. It is your turn." And much better than, "WATER THE DANG FLOWERS!!!!!!"
Your relationship will be much better.
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